Fun Toxic Games for Girls’ Night: 100+ Wild Talk That Tea Questions

Talk That Tea isn’t your average card game—it’s the chaotic lovechild of a truth-or-dare showdown and a no-holds-barred gossip sesh. Designed strictly for adults (21+ only, please), this Talk That Tea drinking game is all about spilling secrets, calling out your friends, and getting just the right amount of tipsy while doing it. Let’s dive in and get into the juiciest part—Talk That Tea questions that’ll have your crew exposing everything or reaching for the nearest shot glass.

What Is Talk That Tea Drinking Game?

The game includes over 100 cards and comes with two shot glasses, though you’ll probably want to have your own lineup ready because things escalate fast. It’s marketed as “toxic AF,” and they mean it. No one walks away without being exposed at least once. That’s kind of the point.

Thanks to viral TikTok clips and Instagram reels, Talk That Tea has built a cult following. If you’ve ever watched a group of friends go from zero to messy in five cards flat, you’ve seen the game in action. Game night will never be the same—and that’s the tea.

Talk That Tea = Uno + Gossip + Shots

Imagine playing Uno, but instead of numbers and colors, each card forces you to expose who you’re stalking on IG, reveal your biggest red flag, or take a shot if you’re too scared to spill. Add some chaotic energy, a few petty queens, and some strong drinks, and you’ve got the full Talk That Tea experience.

What makes this game stand out isn’t just the rules—it’s the vibe. It invites drama (the good kind), laughter, and a little bit of side-eye. You don’t just play Talk That Tea. You survive it.

How to Play Talk That Tea Drinking Game?

First, gather your crew. This game works best with 3–8 players. Deal a set number of cards to each player (or just draw from the deck in rotation), set out the shot glasses, and prepare yourselves. There are no teams—just individuals ready to get grilled or get drunk.

Each turn, a player draws a card and reads it out loud. Some cards will prompt you to answer a spicy question. Others will tell you to call someone out. And if you choose not to answer or participate? That’s a shot for you.

The more honest and chaotic the group, the more fun the game becomes. There are no filters. No safe spaces. Just a deck full of drama and friends who suddenly become FBI agents with receipts.

Drinking Game for Girls’ Night, Bachelorette Parties, and Petty Queens

Talk That Tea was made for moments when the vibe is already a little chaotic and everyone’s in the mood to spill, confess, or stir the pot. Bachelorette parties, birthday kickbacks, pre-games, or girl’s nights—it fits in perfectly. Grab the 100+ fun, toxic questions for adults that you and your besties need right now.

100+ Brutally Honest, Wild, and Toxic Talk That Tea Questions

These are grouped by vibe: funny, shady, spicy, embarrassing, revealing, and chaotic. Use them as inspiration for creating custom cards or for turning your night into pure drama.

🔥 Callout Cards (Expose Your Friends)

1. Who in this room is most likely to ghost someone after a perfect date?
2. Name the person here who would go through someone’s phone.
3. Who’s the biggest red flag—but still somehow lovable?
4. Most likely to cry over someone who doesn’t text back?
5. Who’s a certified love bomber?
6. Pick someone who would date their best friend’s ex.
7. Who here gives the worst advice and still swears they’re right?
8. Most likely to have a burner account?
9. Who can’t go a week without talking to their ex?
10. Who falls in love with every situationship?

💋 Spicy Cards (Rated R)

11. What’s your body count?
12. Have you ever hooked up with more than one person in the same friend group?
13. Name your sneaky link—or take two shots.
14. When’s the last time you sent a risky text?
15. Show the group your last flirty DM.
16. What’s your wildest one-night stand story?
17. Do you have a secret hookup you’ve never told anyone about?
18. Ever cheated or been the other person?
19. What’s the weirdest place you’ve done it?
20. Would you rather give up sex or social media for a year?

😂 Funny / Embarrassing Cards

21. What’s the worst lie you’ve ever told on a date?
22. Read your last 3 emojis used—explain.
23. What’s a weird habit you hope no one notices?
24. Ever accidentally sent a risky pic to the wrong person?
25. Who here would you trust the least with a secret?
26. Show your screen time—if it’s over 6 hours today, drink.
27. What’s your most embarrassing drunk story?
28. Reveal your high school cringiest crush.
29. Name a food that describes your last situationship.
30. Have you ever faked being into someone for free food?

💔 Red Flag Confessions

31. What’s a red flag you always ignore?
32. When’s the last time you double texted?
33. Have you ever stalked someone’s new partner?
34. What’s your toxic trait in relationships?
35. Do you ghost people or get ghosted?
36. When was the last time you liked your ex’s post?
37. Would you get back with your ex if they texted right now?
38. Have you ever posted something just to make someone jealous?
39. What’s the pettiest thing you’ve ever done?
40. Would you rather be blocked or soft-blocked?

😳 Unfiltered Opinions

41. Who do you think peaked in high school?
42. Who’s most likely to get back with their toxic ex?
43. Name a friend who should NOT be giving relationship advice.
44. Who’s secretly the biggest flirt in the group?
45. Who’s dating beneath their potential?
46. If your ex got famous, would you take them back?
47. Name a friend who needs to delete dating apps.
48. Who do you think is always lying about being “over it”?
49. Whose taste in partners makes you cringe?
50. Who overshares the most in the group chat?

🧠 Revealing Cards (Get Deep or Get Drunk)

51. What’s something you’d never want your parents to find out?
52. Have you ever pretended to like someone just for attention?
53. What’s one lie you’ve never admitted to?
54. Who’s a person you still think about but would never tell?
55. What’s your biggest insecurity in dating?
56. If you could unsend one text forever, what would it be?
57. What’s your biggest regret from a past relationship?
58. Have you ever been the problem? Be honest.
59. What’s something you judge others for but still do yourself?
60. What secret do you hope never comes out?

🍸 Dare-Based Cards

61. Text your ex “I miss you”—or take 3 shots.
62. Show the last selfie you sent to someone.
63. Screenshot your recent DMs and let the group read one.
64. Let someone scroll your camera roll for 30 seconds.
65. Call a random contact and say “I still love you.”
66. Post “I miss being toxic” on your IG story—or drink.
67. Let the group write a text to your last situationship.
68. DM a celebrity and shoot your shot.
69. Share your last voice note out loud.
70. Show your dating app bio—or make a new one.

🧂 Petty AF Cards

71. Block someone you shouldn’t still be following.
72. What’s the pettiest thing you’ve done post-breakup?
73. Tell the group a time you played the victim.
74. Who would you never date based on their zodiac sign?
75. What’s a trend you hate but still follow?
76. Subtweet someone in the room—then reveal it.
77. Have you ever faked being busy to avoid a date?
78. What’s your go-to toxic excuse for ghosting?
79. Ever slid into someone’s DMs while they were in a relationship?
80. Have you ever kept talking to someone just for the tea?

👀 Judgey Cards

81. Who here is most likely to get caught cheating?
82. Who’s the most dramatic during a breakup?
83. Who would make the worst reality show contestant?
84. Who’s always “almost” in a relationship?
85. Who’s too emotionally unavailable to be playing this game?
86. Who would go back to their ex even after being humiliated?
87. Who’s the biggest social media stalker?
88. Who’s most likely to text their ex at 2am?
89. Who acts like a main character but gives sidekick energy?
90. Who’s just here to be messy?

🎭 Wildcard Prompts

91. Everyone write down a secret—one person reads them out loud. Guess who wrote what.
92. Everyone vote on the biggest flirt. That person drinks.
93. Everyone point to the most toxic player. That person finishes their drink.
94. Everyone trade phones. The group picks one pic to airdrop to the TV.
95. Group confession: Say something you’ve never told anyone.
96. Share a red flag about yourself you’ve never admitted.
97. Everyone picks a person for you to block right now.
98. Let the person to your left make a new IG caption for your next post.
99. Name your biggest dating regret—or give your phone to the group for one round.
100. Let the group read your last 5 text convos.
101. Say one thing you’ve been too scared to tell the person across from you.

Make It Even More Toxic – Party Variations and Drink Ideas

Sure, Talk That Tea is already a wild ride on its own—but if you’re the kind of host who likes to crank up the drama and down the drinks, there are plenty of ways to make the game even messier, louder, and more unforgettable. Whether you’re planning a full-blown bachelorette bash or just trying to turn a regular Friday night into an unhinged reality show, these party variations and drink pairings will take your game night to the next level.

Themed Game Nights: Dress the Part, Sip the Tea

Inject a little extra chaos with a themed night that sets the mood before the first card is even drawn. Some of our favorites:

• Red Flags & Wine Night – Everyone shows up wearing red (or dressed like walking red flags). Pair with bold red wine or cherry vodka shots.
• Pajamas & Petty Night – Think matching PJs, fuzzy socks, and the softest drip imaginable…while spilling the hardest tea. Drink of choice? Spiked hot cocoa or espresso martinis.
• Exes Anonymous – Everyone brings a story, a photo, or a text from an ex to burn (metaphorically). Sip tequila whenever someone says “I’m over it” but clearly isn’t.
• Trash TV & Talk That Tea – Binge-watch reality TV between rounds and assign a shot every time someone in the group says “I would never do that” (we all know they would).

Drink Pairings to Match the Vibe

To match the game’s spicy energy, you’ll want cocktails that are equally bold, bitter, and maybe a little sweet on the surface.

• “Spill the Tea” Sangria – A fruity but lethal combo of wine, rum, and chopped-up drama (we mean fruit).
• Toxic Lemonade – Vodka, lemonade, and a splash of blue curaçao. Looks innocent. Acts like a villain.
• Hot Mess Express – Fireball, apple cider, and the deep regret that comes after round three.
• Gaslighter – Tequila, jalapeño, lime, and a little salt on the rim—because you’re salty and proud.

Or go easy and let everyone bring a bottle of their favorite emotional-support liquor, then take a shot whenever someone lies and says “I don’t have any tea.”

TikTok Challenge Name: #TalkThatTeaChallenge

Concept: Expose. Sip. Survive. Players film themselves pulling 3 random cards from the Talk That Tea deck, reading them aloud, and either answering truthfully… or taking a shot. The twist? No skips. No editing. No fake answers. If you flinch, you sip.

How to Do the Challenge:

1. Grab your Talk That Tea deck (or make 3 fake cards if you’re promoting pre-sale).
2. Set your phone to record in selfie mode.
3. Pull 3 cards, one at a time.
   • Read each card out loud.
   • Either answer truthfully or take a shot.
4. Use the sound: “It’s giving…exposed.” (or create a branded sound clip with drama music + tea spill effects).
5. Tag 3 friends who need to take the challenge next.
6. Use the hashtag: #TalkThatTeaChallenge

Bonus Twist Options:

• If you answer all 3 truthfully, challenge a friend AND let them add a custom card.
• Do it live with friends and let TikTok commenters vote on who’s lying.

Final Touch: Petty Awards

Want to keep the chaos going even after the last card is drawn? Wrap up the night by handing out fake awards:

• “Most Likely to Expose Themselves Without a Card”
• “Biggest Red Flag, No Debate”
• “Least Likely to Be Invited Next Time (But Will Show Up Anyway)”
• “Most Shots Taken… and It Shows”

Print them, write them on napkins, or just yell them out across the room. Because if you’re going to be messy, you might as well be memorable.